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What do you have the hardest time accepting?

Posted on Jan 17th, 2009 by Alice : Piscaean Alice
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 17, 2009:

...that a Dr. told me yesterday to forget about wanting any more children because the less than 5% chance wouldn´t be worth the money for any treatment it would take...
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Tagged with: QaR, acceptance, self, trait, feature, love
celebriticat : Ambassador of Hugs
about 6 hours later
celebriticat said

It’s a good thing the doctor is not in charge of your life creation. It’s your soul’s purpose, and not some medical prognosis, that determines whether you will have another child.

On the other hand, you may not be aware of what your soul’s purpose is. My plan was for 4 - 6 kids, and I had 2. I can look back and see clearly that my life unfolded exactly as it should, but it took me a while to realize that.

May you fully align yourself with your soul’s purpose, and enjoy the journey - all of it. May you be blissed beyond belief.

~KES : Communicator
about 11 hours later
~KES said

Sending light … celebriticat said what I would say… you are in charge and getting other opinions and spiritual healings along with your trustworthy doctors is senior.

~KES : Communicator
about 11 hours later
~KES said

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wanted to send light….’ be well ’

mermaid : Humanitarian
about 11 hours later
mermaid said

these other two comments have already said some amazing things, i’d just like to add - belief and hope can drown out the noise of negativity.

about 12 hours later
flowerchildatheart said

I certainly can’t beat what these beautiful people here have already said, but I wanted to add my support…my heart sends out wishes for hope and healing and love to you Alice!

Blessings,
xoxo
Valerie

martha : wildlygentle
about 12 hours later
martha said

I’m in agreement with the wonderful people above.  It amazes me how wise people are.  Also, I do want to offer a big {{{{HUG}}}}, which I wish I could give you in person, to acknowledge that regardless of the nature of your path and journey, your deep desire to bring souls into the world is a beautiful one, and that if you hear medical opinions such as that, it is scary and feels so lonely.  It is a process of grieving to deal with the idea of being childless when you want children.  So, I guess, we look that one in the face for awhile.  But, as some said above, that doesn’t mean that hope is taken from you as well, just that the odds may be pretty steep.  Another thought is that motherhood happens in many ways.  As a teacher, I see the “motherness” of what I do on many levels, and am amazed by the presence of my students in the world.  I wish you well, lovely Alice.

Goddess2day   : Poet, Philosopher, Writer, Wannabe.
about 15 hours later
Goddess2day said

Sigh… This is indeed a tough thing to accept! Dear Alice, may yougain’hope’ from all the many true and successful stories floating around….ofmanypeople with less or similar chances who have beaten the odds and become parents of beautiful souls.

A big hug for you. Thanks for sharing your story with us.

Amy

Samme : Prince of Rainbows<3
about 16 hours later
Samme said

Love and hugs to you Alice.
blessings,
Samme

ange : dawn song
about 16 hours later
ange said

sending you love and blessings
and you know peace within, now surrounded by friendships
of deep caring and continued support…

Love
Ange..

about 20 hours later
Nightphoenix said

I’m in agreement that this is hard to accept –
sending you hope –

muji : messenger
about 22 hours later
muji said

I’m deeply touched. In tears. So many things I wouldn’t have thought to say. That’s why this is a community.

Alice : Piscaean
1 day later
Alice said

I am deeply touched and feel amazingly embraced by all your kindness… may I be able to be such a friend when you are in need of one, woo. 

Tina : Creating with feeling & thought
1 day later
Tina said

Dear Alice, Meho told me of you and your story.  I read your profile and some of your blogs and it sounds like you are in the painful process of letting go.  I hope you have support and inspiration to allow whatever flows from here to flow.  My experience has shown me that our resistance makes the experience so much more painful.  I also truly believe (along with many on this page, I think) if you were meant to give birth one more time… no matter what anyone says, you will get pregnant.  We are so much more capable than we know. 
From a more powerful place, I feel sometimes the letting go piece is about filling up that space/or spaces with the incredible layers of yourself.  Undiscovered…or maybe, as of yet, unrealized…allowing the Who You Are to absorb color and texture. 
Either way ~ it sounds like you are at an exciting crossroads.  I wish you love.

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